Open Adoption Benefits
Benefits for Children
The children of open adoption grow up with the assurance and
comfort of knowing their birth parents love them very much. They
know and understand how they joined their adoptive family. The
children of open adoption do not fantasize about who their birth
parents are or what they are like - they know!
In open adoption, because the child knows about his/her roots and heritage,
the child's feelings of loss and abandonment are minimized and they are
not confused by having parents and birth parents. This is only
natural to them as they grow up with full access to information
about the people who love them. A child's capacity to love is
not limited.
Benefits for birth parents
Open adoption provides many assurances to birth parents who
decide to release their child for adoption. Birth parents select
the parents who will raise their child. Their grief and feelings
of loss are lessened by their ability to communicate with the
adoptive family on an ongoing basis. Birth parents experience
a peace of mind in knowing how their child is developing throughout
life.
Benefits for adoptive families
Adoptive parents experience a stronger sense of entitlement
in their parental role as a result of being chosen by the birth
parents to raise the child. Adoptive parents no longer fear the
unknown because they know the identity and whereabouts of the
birth parents. They have direct access to information in answering
a child's questions and in exploring medical concerns.
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